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doctor's wife
i am a doctor who is engaged with a specialist Physician. i am confused about the problems a doctors wife (weather housewife/working lady/lady doctor) may face:
1. night duties
2. female colleagues of husband.
kindly guide me.
thanks
SAMREEN
Posted by: samreenqmcPosts: 140 :: 06-05-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
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Samreen
why are u so worry.I think it doesnt matter to whom you married .sincerity is major issue.Have you any surity if you would marry non medical person ,he will be friendly and spend time at home with you and have that mental toughness that you have.I think maturity and friendship of both sides is required and obviuosly both have to compromise.
Rest colleagues lady doctors are not the issue.If you are a working doctor ,you are also female colleague of many doctors.
Be relaxed and put it on God.He is the best planner.
All the best in your life
Posted by: sadePosts: 9 :: 07-05-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
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Thanks. you are right that God is the BestPlanner.
May Allah help
Posted by: samreenqmcPosts: 140 :: 16-05-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
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OH DOCTOR SAMREEN! DONOT WORRY. DOCTORS ARE HUMAN BEINGS. DONOT BE SCARRED OF HUMAN BEINGS.
BEST OF LUCK
Posted by: SIUT PAKISPosts: 7 :: 24-06-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: Re: Re: Re: doctor's wifeNow this is really Funny....while i share the concern of the lady regarding getting married to a doctor but its really funny to post it in Public health...Since when Marrying a doctor became a public health problem
Posted by: drrathorePosts: 428 :: 27-06-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: doctor's wifeoh Dr Rathore thanks for pointing out this mistake. it is not a matrimonial proposal rather a concern of a professional colleague
Posted by: samreenqmcPosts: 140 :: 14-08-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
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how about the other way, a male doctor marrying a female physician? Should he be concerned about
1) night duties
2) male colleagues of his wife
Even broadly, should all husbands keep their wives in closet and all wives should keep their husbands in closet?
Posted by: rqayyumPosts: 199 :: 14-08-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
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AA
I think doctors have good professional understanding,so they can understand each other responsibilities and problems very well as compared to peoples of other profession. additionally they have good knowledge so if two doctor have good understanding then they should marry and hopefully it could be a good marriage...
[Edited by aftabac on 20-08-2008 at 10:50 AM GMT]
[Edited by aftabac on 24-08-2008 at 04:06 PM GMT]
Posted by: aftabacPosts: 271 :: 20-08-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
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I think doctors have good professional understanding,so they can understand each other responsibilities and problems very well as compared to peoples of other profession. additionally they have good knowledge so if two doctor have good understanding then they should marry and hopefully it could be a good marriage...
Posted by: aftabacPosts: 271 :: 20-08-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: doctor's wifedoctor shud never marry a doctor coz in this case,they will have nothing 2 discuss, other than their patients.."hospital in home" situation
Posted by: zehraaaPosts: 8 :: 02-09-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: Re: doctor's wifeyour point of view may have some standing but its natural that businessmen discuss their routine activities with their wives and engineers, doctors, office workers etc do the same. ultimately all females have to marry some professional. then why not "hospital-discussing" doctor!!!
Posted by: samreenqmcPosts: 140 :: 09-10-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
CONFUSION
Dear SAMREEN...!!!
Ur problem seems 2 b very complex besided anything else...
I suggest u 2 get a CLINICAL CONSULTATION of any good "SOCIAL/CLINICAL/COMMUNITY PSYCHOLOGIST" of PAKISTAN...
Because, MIND ,offcourse, matters...
Any decision is cerebrated and cognizable by mind. Surely, when u r confused in such a matter that if (offcourse) easy for all 2 b discussed, BUT pretty-difficult for any one 2 b ANALYZED. So, I recommend 2 CONSULT above mentioned specialist, coz u r going 2 put urself on such a track in this RACE OF LIFE wherefrom there are many DIVERSIONS but not a sigle one REVESE GEAR of LIFE...All of us are passing from the MEDIUM of TIME. Once a DECISION OF LIFE is taken then all consequences must be faced, before claiming parents, friends, colleagues etc...
So, as being a DOCTOR myself, I would like to recommend u BETTERE WAY, as seemed to me...REFER TO A "PSYCHOLOGIST", on the conditiion that PSYCHOLOGIST must be experienced one, NOT a young one, OR impressive one 2 have a mere foreign degree, but not observation...!!!
My PRAYERS are with U...
Wish U GODSPEED in ur life...
DR. ALI CHISTI
Posted by: iqra786Posts: 36 :: 11-10-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
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Impressive non-sense and personal attacks. Thumbs up. Thats how doctors should be. Writing incomprehensible english in an unfathomable shorthand and with blithe personal attacks doesn't exactly suit doctors. That said, most recent MBBS are bachay anyway. God knows why MBBS is a bachelors degree in Pak and not a Doctoral like elsewhere. People come out as immature as the go in to med school.
For the lady who thinks this is a public health problem, it IS! This is Social HEalth and Development! lol ..Never marry a doctor!!! So what if he talks to his collegaues? Are you THAT immature?!?!?! Grow up!
Posted by: HyderPosts: 9 :: 14-10-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
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Dear HYDER...!!!
U r too MATURE 2 comprehend others...
Gud luck...
Posted by: iqra786Posts: 36 :: 19-10-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
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hey samreen!!!
well , first i am shocked as well to see your post in the public health section....well, i am a female doctor too...every female is worried when she thinks of marriage, that's a part of life....but hey , being a female just an advice don't take it too much to heart....gonna get difficult for you later...
just relax...whether the guy is a doctor or not..doesn't really matter ...what matters is that you are happy with your marriage..that's about it..!!!
best of luck!
Posted by: doc mariaPosts: 6 :: 21-10-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
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Thanks Maria!
I am much satisfied. Thanks God. i got married and having a good married life.
Posted by: samreenqmcPosts: 140 :: 27-10-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
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Hey samreen!!!!
so finally you are married
that's great .....i wish you the very best of your married life......
Posted by: doc mariaPosts: 6 :: 09-11-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: Re: Re: Re: doctor's wifeThanx Dr. MARIA. may Allah bless you.
Posted by: samreenqmcPosts: 140 :: 17-11-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: doctor's wifeits ok
Posted by: samreenqmcPosts: 140 :: 23-12-2008 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: doctor's wifeits is a typical life situation faced by many professionals especially girls,whether to marry a doctor or not. you have been successful in your start of new life. may ALLAH bless you.
Posted by: BVHOSPITALPosts: 131 :: 27-01-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
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i am happily married. thanx to prayers of all well-wishers
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Posted by: samreenqmcPosts: 140 :: 02-06-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: doctor's wifeGood to hear about your happy marriage...Wish you all the best in life
Posted by: drrathorePosts: 428 :: 03-06-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: doctor's wifeisn't it too scary. There is huge community of doctors both male and female and married. It should not be an issue provided you understand each other
Posted by: drsalimktkPosts: 2 :: 17-06-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: Re: doctor's wifeok sir
Posted by: samreenqmcPosts: 140 :: 17-06-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: Re: doctor's wifeThanx Dr. Rathore
Posted by: samreenqmcPosts: 140 :: 31-07-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: Re: Re: doctor's wifeBIBI abb khar basao our mian and bachoo ka khiyal rakho. May Allah bless you
Posted by: BVHOSPITALPosts: 131 :: 05-08-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: Re: Re: Re: doctor's wifeThanx a lot for your kind suggestions
Posted by: samreenqmcPosts: 140 :: 07-08-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: Re: Re: Re: doctor's wifeThanx a lot for your kind suggestions
Posted by: samreenqmcPosts: 140 :: 07-08-2009 :: | Reply to this Message
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: doctor's wifeHi every body.
Posted by: samreenqmcPosts: 140 :: 08-02-2010 :: | Reply to this Message
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wats ur own status mean a doctor or non doctor.
[Edited by ashfaq kha on 13-02-2010 at 08:29 AM GMT]
Posted by: ashfaq khaPosts: 3 :: 13-02-2010 :: | Reply to this Message